Thinking about death is not easy, but it is an inevitable part of our lives. In many cases, difficult care decisions arise near the time of death. As much as we might not want to think about it, we must prepare for these decisions. Part of that is having an end-of-life care discussion with your family. This post will provide tips for having that discussion.
Having an End-of-Life Care Discussion With Your Family
1. Organize Your Thoughts
Speaking about one’s death is a difficult conversation. Even if it is your death, it may be even more emotional and difficult for your family. That is why you must organize your thoughts beforehand. That way, you can be ready to address their questions and express your feelings. It is also important to listen to your family and acknowledge their feelings.
2. Know Your Goals and Wishes
End-of-life discussions should include goals and wishes regarding pain management and medical interventions. Tell your family about the types of care you want and those you’d prefer to avoid. Express your feelings about any spiritual or cultural services you may want at or near your time of death. Expressing your goals and wishes can help your family make the right decisions when the time comes.
3. Include Everyone
Open communication is essential. Bringing everyone together can ensure the necessary emotional support. It can also ensure no one feels you left them out of an important conversation. You may also want to avoid telling some people before others. That way, no one will hear about your end-of-life plans from others before you can tell them.
4. Make it Private
End-of-life discussions can be emotional and sensitive. It is best to have this kind of discussion in a comfortable place where your loved ones can easily relax. Privacy is also important. Plan to have the discussion at your home or the home of a loved one.
5. Make it Simple
Avoid using medical terms that are difficult to comprehend during the conversation. Complex medical terms may add confusion to the conversation. Instead, use more comforting and simple words that can easily facilitate understanding for your loved ones.
6. Do Your Research
Learning more about the end-of-life stage can help you navigate this conversation. Many resources are available online, and you can share them with your family. Familiarizing yourself with the legal documents needed can assist you and your family in making the right decisions.
Having this discussion isn’t easy, but it is necessary. Beyond talking about end-of-life care, you may also want to discuss estate planning.
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