Are you starting to worry that one or both of your parents may need assisted living? It’s a difficult decision. Most of us also dread having to raise the subject with our parents. Even if we know moving to assisted living is the right choice, we worry about how they may react.
While it may be a delicate subject, you shouldn’t avoid mentioning it. You need to know how to handle the conversation. With the following tips, you can address senior care with your parents.
Moving to Assisted Living: Tips for Having the Conversation
Research Senior Living
The first step is to gain the necessary knowledge before talking to your parent. Learn about the different types of assisted living and what your parents can expect. That way, you can answer more of their questions and address their concerns. Additionally, you should gather information about different assisted living communities in your area.
Start Early
It is better to start the conversation about assisted living early. You don’t even need to see signs that they need it. The conversation can be a way to learn more about their preferences. It is also better to start early because your parents won’t feel like you are rushing them. Having the conversation before it is needed allows your parents time to come to terms with the idea.
Use Positive Framing
Many people have misconceptions about assisted living. For some, it has a stigma that they or their parents failed somehow. Assisted living is not a failure. It can be a way to ensure a safer and healthier life for your parents. Moving to assisted living may even enrich their lives. Maintain a positive tone and always look for ways to highlight the positives.
Discuss Your Concerns
This conversation often comes up because you and other family members may have started having concerns about your parent. Outline the issues that concern you and the worries you have about them living alone. Take these concerns and connect them with the ways assisted living can help address them.
Understand Their Concerns
Your parents’ concerns are just as valid as yours. Even if they need assisted living, they may fear the change or worry about losing their independence. Listen to their concerns and address them with the knowledge you gained during research. Explain that moving to senior living isn’t about losing freedom but gaining support to maintain independence.
Finally, assure your parents you will keep them in the loop and respect their autonomy. If you’ve started early, you can follow up after they have time to think. Consider consulting elder care specialists to help with long-term care planning.
Do you need help planning long-term care or finding the right care? Click here to contact Scott Law Offices. We are elder law specialists dedicated to advocating for seniors and their families. Reach out now to learn more about our services.
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